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Can I Show You How to Exponentially Grow Your Spiritual Maturity, Productivity, & Intimacy with God all While Building a Family Vision that Leaves a Multi-Generational Legacy?
If You're Serious about Growing Your Family, Your Faith, or Family Vision in 2024 - This Page Will Take You About 4 Minutes to Read, but Could Become The "Lifeline You've Been Praying For". A Major Turning Point for Your Family's Future...

Dear family —
We are Derek & Jordan Palizay.
We've spent our 13+ years of marriage so far helping modern families build family visions and walk in Godly purpose, increase their family health and their business wealth—by healing, developing and putting in place Family Cadences and Family Systems and Frameworks.
On this page I will share exactly how we do that, but first, it's important that you know two things:
First: What I am about to teach you has the potential to transform your family from the inside out, and if for some reason that is not the case, I don't want you to pay a single dollar for it.
Second: ...even if you don't take me up on any of this, I believe that just by READING this page you will get the revelation, breakthrough and insight that should change how you build your life and your family moving forward.
Let's begin.
I am going to share with you a REAL STORY based on real life experiences with other families, but we will make up names to protect information. ;-)
Five Years Ago, Two Couples Started Building Their Families
These families were very similar. ALMOST IDENTICAL IN FAMILY STRUCTURE.
They both were in the beginning of their marriage season, focused on building a life and a family together.
Both families had a husband who was willing to lead well and work hard and a wife who was willing to nurture and build a home and family; but one family worked harder.
They gave everything that they had and went beyond the normal "expectations" of a young husband and wife.
They loved their family the best they could, worked normal jobs, and worked on their side hustle in the evenings, early mornings and eventually through the weekends.
Before long, they found themselves spinning their wheels—it seemed like the HARDER they tried at marriage and life, the less progress they made.
Their "family" turned into a mental trap and an emotional and spiritual liability.
They no longer had the energy to work on their family, let alone grow it. They had to do the necessities just to keep their family afloat and cover expenses from recent mistakes. They began isolating themselves, getting into arguments and fights, and eventually...they both started seeking guidance from outside sources to help.
Meanwhile, they tried to do anything they could to feel some sense of normalcy. All of that original vision of breaking generational patterns in their family, yet they were living in a self-fulfilling prophecy of lack and would often go to unrighteous outlets just to find some escapism from life and business.
Unfortunately, they haven't grown much since and we no longer help them directly. (Just continual prayer for them.)
They didn't follow the biblical frameworks, cadences, templates, or guides that we've taught for over a decade. They listened to their group of "friends" and watched endless social media content from "experts" who told them they needed to find themselves, focus on self awareness, and "make room" for balance and mindfulness. These "experts" sound genius but they lack the character, life skills and context needed to grow Godly families who partner with God in the purpose and mandate for their own family.
The other family had a VERY different experience
Similar Family
Similar Vision
Different “family system” for running (and growing) their family.

THIS FAMILY took our frameworks seriously, recognizing that how you grow a family is through relentless pursuit of God's design for your family.
They implemented frameworks like The 6 Family Foundations, The Established Method, Family Cadences, Essential Conversation Matrix, Horizon Goal Setting — frameworks that I pray to teach you and integrate into your family and your business.
They even created massive revenue for their unexpected family business, but more importantly, breathing room in their marriage and their schedule—which they used to welcome a couple new little ones into the world.
They seemingly upgraded their family experiences, outings, generosity and giving, home, cars, lifestyle in every season. It's inspiring to watch God work through their family.
And they've been some of the most present spouses, parents and friends to their community that I've ever had the privilege of helping develop.
Within a year, this family became multi 7-figure family-business owners and positioned themselves so they could continue to be present with their family WITHOUT sacrificing growth and development.
Every single month their family has had NEW experiences, more influence, and their public audience grew so large that they could launch anything successfully in any season (primarily due to our Family Faucets Model.)
God is REALLY using their story in a big way.
As a few more years passed, they've won awards, spoken on stages, and grew their net worth and generated hundreds of thousands of followers on social media.
This is WAY oversimplified—there were a lot of principles and disciplines they had to lead their family with and challenges they had to face with perseverance and faith.
Meanwhile, the first family experienced consistent hardships and struggle—always needing support from their community, church, and job.
...rather than leading and being a contributor in those places.
If you asked them today, they'd tell you things they are "planning on doing".
They'd also give you a few reasons things "just didn't work out" and how other people catch lucky breaks. They would show you half finished projects that are "genius" and a "big deal" and why they should be further but things keep happening "to them."
Most likely, unless God intervenes and softens their heart so they can receive truth, they will likely burnout, give up, change directions all the time, or become a chameleon in a community they don't want to be in.
If you remember nothing else from this page, please remember that: God called you as a family to things beyond what you could hope for and image—He doesn't want you to be a stagnant, depressed family who doesn't walk in the fullness of their purpose and lives in oppression and lack.
Your family vision will not breathe life into itself. And if you don't unlock God's purpose and design for that family vision, it will cease to exist.

Here is why...
Wanting great things for your family is not the same as building great things for your family.
With that in mind, let's get back to my original question at the top...
We said we would show you how to exponentially grow your family's vision, productivity, & intimacy with God all while building a family business that leaves a multi-generational legacy
Since 2012, we have helped thousands of families, grown hundreds of businesses, and scaled several (and sold 2x) of our own companies.
Here's what we've observed and learned:
Healthy families (some of which run businesses, not all) are a byproduct of two things:
- Having the proper integrations (a biblically based collection of information)
- And following the right process with RELENTLESS pursuit
Every month, our Established Family team and us take lessons and training straight from what's working in healthy and wealthy christian families right now. These are real lessons, real stories cumulatively collected and organized from our work with thousands of people.
We address what's working; what's on the heart of God in this season; what frameworks are crushing; emerging opportunities for families; growing families and even scaling businesses (don't let that part scare you, it's not the focus it's the bonus); and to integrate family business and the marketplace (and do it profitably); and always written directly from us with a little storytelling and quirk because we like to keep it fun.
Then we put all of that together and share it with a community of focused, hungry Godly families like you who want to heal, grow, and establish their life and purpose.
It's the fastest, wisest, and simplest way for you to integrate the right processes into your family (outside of having us as personal family coaches and business consultants - which I promise you is not anywhere as affordable as what I am about to show you.)
Introducing The Family Memo

Monthly high quality training, education, articles and stories specifically for christian families and family businesses

Each month, learnings, ideas, stories, lessons, revelations and PROVEN consulting & research is packaged up and sent to you digitally (and with a 30 minute audio training from my wife and I, maybe...we will get to that in a second.)
If you integrated just one idea per month, I believe that you and your family will see this as one of the most valuable growth tools that you've ever enjoyed.
And at a cost that doesn't make any sense compared to the courses, content, articles and masterclasses in the industry that will charge you thousands for lower quality training.
Two Ways to Become a Member
We have two options for those looking to upgrade to a full membership with The Family Memo. Please choose the one that best suits you in order to proceed.

You Probably Noticed That The Digital + Coaching Membership Includes Two Exclusive Bonuses...
BONUSES INCLUDED
THE FAMILY FOUNDATIONS TOOLKIT. We designed the family foundations kit to help your family thrive spiritually, personally, and collectively as a unit. From the Family Design Template for your purpose statement, to the goal setting worksheet, essential conversations guide, and even child profiles to help uncover your children's unique gifts, it's all here.
- Family Design Template
- Essential Conversations Matrix
- Horizon Goal Setting
- Child Profile Templates
- 100 Family Business Ideas
- 50 Family Nights & Date Nights
BTW: This toolkit sells for $29 by itself on EstablishedFamily.com — so this is one of the only ways you can get it included for a lower cost than available to the public.

We've practically wiped out ALL the risk from your side...
Just to let you know, we stand firmly behind our training products all the time.
If you decide to join and don't see the value, if your mind isn't buzzing with new insights, or if you don't find at least ONE idea to give your family and business a boost — I won't ask you to pay for it.
Simply drop a line to our top-notch support team anytime and let us know why you weren't satisfied, and we'll promptly refund you 100% of your payment.
This product stands out in this respect (most of our products come with a 7-day 100% money-back guarantee) - but we're incredibly confident that we're offering you one of the most valuable recurring training resources available today.
And we're ready to back it up!
Look, the Choice is 100% in Your Hands...

I want you to picture yourself one year from now. What kind of family, life and business do you want to have?
Stable & secure? Or constantly living in the margins of life?
Thriving, growing, and expanding? Or doing the same thing for another year...
Purposeful, future-focused, and with God? Or dependent on your own intellect to figure it out...
The truth is that YOU get to decide which type of family you want to become. The decision starts here and now—not later when you feel inspired (hopefully). And we've done everything we can to make this the most impactful and easiest decision for your family.
What you do from here is your choice! Hope to see you inside.
Blessings on your journey,
Derek & Jordan Palizay
In Case You're One of Those Skimmers Who Skips to The Bottom of the Page
We have two options for those looking to upgrade to a full membership with The Family Memo.